Alice Maher
Member since Jul 2019
University Is Hard Work
My first year at university, to be brutally honest, was an utter shambles. It took me the whole year to find my feet and, for a while I felt so pathetic for feeling like that. I’d look onto my social media and see old school friends having the best time of their life at their […]
My Uni Reality
This is a post I wrote back in February when I was overcoming a horrid spell of feeling very low. I wanted to share this intimate post on here because, it’s the reality of a university experience for some. It was my reality and it may be yours. Having made it to the other side, […]
Summer Body Blues
When my boyfriend and I booked our holiday to Greece back in March I’ve spent most hours of the daydreaming about the amazing time we were going to have. In each daydream, whether on the beach or by the pool or swimming in the sea or in a bar, I imagined myself looking like I […]
here’s the tea- long distance relationships
‘Dear God you’re starting university NOT single?!– How can you possibly enjoy yourself if you have someone at home? You need to be finding yourself- not stuck on the phone to someone miles away. It’ll never last…’ WHAT A LOAD OF RUBBISH. I’ve been in a long distance relationship for over a year and, it’s […]
my current playlists
I’ve never not got music playing. It’s normally on, far too loud, 24 hours of the day. With that, I have thousands of playlists to suit all genres and moods so, have a scroll through and hopefully find some new artists you like!! MELLOW: chilled vibes good for the bath or relaxing in your room […]
your ultimate autumn watch list
Bit of a chunky blog post this one, I’ve crafted for you my ultimate autumnal watch list. From cinema trips, to old film classics, to TV shows or the ultimate Netflix binge- it’s all below. CINEMA | currently seen IT Chapter Two | 6/10 The Autumn season calls for a good old scary film. It’s […]
deal or no deal: colour changing foundation
Instagram is notorious for it’s many advertisements trying to flog you an evolutionary makeup product or the most expensive leggings that will ensure you a Kim K bum. The question is: how do you distinguish the scams from the real deals? I regret to say that on many occasions I have fallen down the Instagram […]
Uni Chats, End Of Term Slump
Guys. December is almost here. It’s so close I can almost touch it!!! Yet, I’ve still got 4 essay deadlines, presentations, lecture notes, blog deadlines, applications to send, housing contract to sign, seminar prep all left to do! I’ve got 14 days left of this term, 2 weeks today I’ll be packing my suitcase for […]
In a New Relationship: With GYM
Hey guys, December is upon us and soon we’ll all be writing our New Years Resolutions! I thought i’d share with you an old post from back in February 2019 documenting my attempt to stick to a new years resolution. Spoiler alert: i didn’t stick to it but, in the moment it did the world […]
My Paris Bucket List
I’ve got countless notebooks where i’ve written down here and there things for my ‘bucket list’ but, most of my list is kept mentally in my head. I’ve been lucky enough to already have ticked off parts of my list and, on my trip to Paris I got to tick off a couple of pretty […]
Foodie | Homemade Pizza n Mugcakes
It’s November. The rents been taken out. The overdraft has been well and truly broken into, so Dominos Fridays are no longer a thing. What a sad, sad sentence. I will not however be deprived of my cheesy pizza and, as if I wasn’t procrastinating enough already, I decided there would be no better way […]
Book Club | The Librarian of Auschwitz
‘We’re in Auschwitz. What do you want me to do? Take out life insurance?… ‘In a place like Auschwitz where everything is designed to make you cry, a smile is an act of defiance’. This book. Trying to find words to summarise just how powerful this narrative is is beyond any ability I have. All […]
Who You Should Be Following On Instagram
In a world of false expectations and unhealthy competition on social media outlets, it’s so ridiculously important to be following people who will inspire, motivate and enlighten you. Find below my top Instagram accounts who have done absolute wonders to my feed! @rosemarinoramsey Rosie’s content focuses on her day to day life. Covering her role […]
let’s talk, periods
Period, a word that makes both men and women shudder. For YEARS I have been completely bewildered by the taboo subjects of periods. Women bleed every single month for roughly around 40 years. That’s a big old chunk of time, so why are we struggling to speak openly about periods? Currently, there are numerous activist […]
Nine??? Oh you poor thing I bet that was horrendous! Hope it has subsided for you!! Must have been awful having them return after so long!xx
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How do you find the coil? I'm on the pill currently but, don't know if I want to be on it forever! I've heard so many horror stories about the coil, what's your perspective on it?xx
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Ah this was really comforting to read, my only relationship has been long distance. We're a year into living apart (due to me being at university), it's nowhere near as difficult as what your situation seems to be but, it is really challenging! It's comforting to hear another story of personal experience! Hope the four months aren't too bad, I cannot imagine how rubbish it is at times xxx
Commented on / Long Distance Relationships: A Guide
I love grabbing my boyfriend and heading off for a food date or if, we have the time, heading on the train to explore a brand new city! We visited Newcastle next week and had the best time!
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I think if we’d met sooner we would have gone to university together! But, James is the year above me and we met just a month before I got accepted!! Often wish that sometimes we’d met just those few months before!! I love that you’re both married now! Makes me excited for the future haha, I feel like university is a key milestone to get through together xx
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Oh Amy, this is such a lovely response and exactly why I felt it was so important to publish this post! It's comforting to hear that other people had a strikingly similar experience, it makes me feel much less alone!! Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, it's made my day! So happy you were able to push through and get that degree, wonder woman!! xx
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Thank you for such a kind reply Emily! xx
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So so true!!! It's so easy to get swept up in the chaotic nature of freshers and workload that you spend no time for yourself!x
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So lush to here that all your bonds got stronger when you moved away!! I have to say, mine seems the opposite. My mum and I have always been close- that hasn't changed. The long periods of distance are hard to handle and, I've found that being home for summer it's just not quite the same and it's been so hard to handle! It's just so bizarre when you come back and everything that was once familiar isn't anymore!xx
Commented on / How Moving Away For University Changed My Relationship With My Family
Still not had chance to catch Kathy Burke’s documentary, this has made me set a reminder to watch it tonight!!
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Shark Week, hehe how cheeky!! My mood swings are HORRENDOUS during my 'shark week', I end up crying about everything! So silly what it does to us isn't it! xx
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